Frequently Asked Questions

About Posting a Pen Pal Ad

How do I post a pen pal ad?

Just click "Post FREE Ad" in the menu on the left, or click here. Fill out the short form and click the button and you're finished.

How long will it take for my pen pal ad to be posted on your site?

Normally your ad will be posted within 24 hours of the time that you submit it. (Ads are not posted instantly because they have to be screened, to keep this site clean for you.)

How do I edit my pen pal ad?

Just click "Edit/Remove Ad" in the menu on the left, or click here. Or, you may simply post a new ad (the old one will be automatically removed if it contains the same email address and if it's the same age & sex (or even if the age is within one year).

How do I add my photo to my pen pal ad?

If you already have a scanned photo, simply attach it in email to photos@ChristianPenPals.com. (Ideally it should be in either .jpg or .gif file format, but we can also accept some other file formats such as .bmp or .tif.) Be sure to tell us the email address that was used in your pen pal ad (so that we can find your ad).

How long will it take for my photo to be added to my pen pal ad?

Normally your photo will be added to your pen pal ad within a few days from the time that you email it to us. (You will be notified in email when it is posted.)

How do I remove my pen pal ad?

Just click "Edit/Remove Ad" in the menu on the left, or click here.

Is it free to post a pen pal ad? Do I ever have to pay anything?

It is absolutely free to post a pen pal ad on our site, and absolutely free to receive all the replies that are automatically forwarded to your confidential email address, which you can freely reply to.

Will you give my email address to anyone?

No. With our Anti-SPAM Email System, no one sees your email address on our site (and we do not give your email address to any person or any organization or company. (We ourselves may contact you occasionally (as long as your pen pal ad is on our site), to inform you of new features, or to inform you that your pen pal ad is expired, etc.)

Exactly what is your "Anti-SPAM email system"?

A couple of years ago the pen pal ads on our site did show the email addresses. At that time we had a problem that grew bigger and bigger. Our site became a haven for 'Christian SPAMMERS'. Any and every kind of Christian ministry, Christian charity, mailing list, prayer list, etc. under the sun was using our site to grab thousands of Christian email addresses for their unsolicited mass emails (unsolicited mass email is commonly referred to on the internet as 'SPAM'). Of course we got complaints. We solved that problem by concealing the email addresses on our site and instituting a membership system: no one can reply to a pen pal ad unless they have a membership. This allows us to ban any SPAMMERS or abusive users, since if you receive any inappropriate or unsolicited message, you can forward it to us at abuse@ChristianPenPals.com. (Fortunately that happens very rarely). Incidentally, the membership system is also a means of funding for our site, since there is a small fee for membership (minimum is $2 (US), for one full month of unlimited usage).

How can I find my ad on your site?

To confirm that your pen pal ad is in our system, go to edit/remove and enter your email address (the same one you used in your ad).

If I do not have a membership but I have a pen pal ad posted on your site, will I be able to email back the people who respond to my pen pal ad?

Yes. When a member responds to your pen pal ad through our anti-SPAM email system, you will automatically and instantly receive an email containing their message, with their email address in the 'from' part of the email. All you have to do is simply 'reply' to that initial email, and you will be in direct email contact with that person. In other words, if you receive a response to your pen pal ad, all you have to do is use the 'reply' option on your email software, and you will be in direct email contact with that person.

If you have any question about posting a pen pal ad that is not answered here, please contact us

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